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November 20, 2010
share his son to America to study after graduation false blending the United States. Back I found a foreign wife Susan. Today, grandson Toby was 3 years old. This year, Yantian, for my son were allowed to apply for a visa. Spent three months in the United States, foreign wife Susan another way of teaching children, I am an eye-opener that the Chinese mother.
not eat on an empty
every morning, Toby woke up, Susan to the breakfast table one place, they just keep running around tending to the. Toby climb on their own stool, drink milk and eat bread. Eat, he returned to his room, in the closet looking for clothes, shoes, and then put on their own. Toby eventually only 3 years old, still do not understand son is back, tell the mercy of shoes feet. Toby once again the anti-wear pants, and I quickly stepped forward to help him change, Susan was banned. She said that if he do not feel comfortable, be themselves off and put on new; if he did not think there is any discomfort, it will be with him. Of that day, Toby anti-wear pants running around like Susan did not catch a glimpse of the same.
again, Toby came in and the neighborhood children to play, no more gasping to the General Assembly on the run home, for Susan, said: “Mom, Lucy said to wear my pants backwards , really? “Lucy is a neighbor girl, 5 years old this year. Susan smiled and said: “Yes, Colombia clothing , you either want to change back to?” Toby nodded, took off his pants, carefully looked at and re-put. Since then, Toby never wearing pants versa.
I can not help but think, my granddaughter 56 years old will not use chopsticks, elementary school will not tie his shoe. Vote only on the system now in junior high school, she brought home every weekend to do a lot of dirty clothes.
one day at midnight, Toby downtown feeling, do not want to use rice. Susan said his few words, Toby, a little angrily pushed the plate to the ground, throwing a plate of food in one place. Susan looked at Toby, really, said: “It seems you do not want to eat solid! Remember, from the arrival of Japanese Patent morning now, what do you eat less than grams.” Toby point nod, strong to answer: “Yes ! “I laughing in his heart, this mother and son, but also all kind of dead!
down the gauntlet, Susan and I discuss in the evening for me to make Chinese food. My soulmate, Toby shake hands eat Chinese food, definitely think Susan Toby did a good meal at noon, let him eat more at night.
play cooking that morning I did a Toby favorite Sweet and Sour Pork, shrimp oil boring, but also pasta made with Chinese-style noodles. Toby likes to eat the kind of cold noodles, little people can eat a big plate full.
started to eat dinner, Toby enraptured climb stool. Susan has walked over, took his plate and knife and fork, said: “We have an appointment, goldwin , the day you can not eat, belstaff uk , you themselves agreed to. “Toby looked at the face of grim face of the mother,” wow “to cry in tears, weeping, said:” Mom, I hungry, I want to eat. “” can not, said something to count . “Susan never relented.
I feel bad, and want to make Toby beg off, say a bad things, I was surprised to find his son a wink. Remember when I first came to the United States, his son told me that, in the United States, parents educate their children, others absolutely do not get involved, even the elders is no exception. Helpless, I had to link silent quiet.
meal, from start to finish, poor little Toby kept sitting on toy car, looked on helplessly while our three small children clean sweep. My Susan let me make this clear Western real intention. I believe that next time, Toby would like to send temperament throw their jobs, they will be thought of his empty stomach to see my parents and grandmother to enjoy food resume. Taste less hungry feel better, not to mention facing their most usual food preferences.
before going to sleep, place to go with me and Susan Toby good night. Toby asked timidly: “Mom, I hungry, I eat Chinese face it?” Susan smiled and nodded shake, strong, said: “No!” Toby sighed tone, asked: “I am so After sleep when the eyes start to sleep, you can eat? “” of course you can. “cis Susan replied. Toby Tiantiandixiao up.
most circumstances, are very enthusiastic to eat Toby, he did not want due to “stop eating” and miss the food and then starving stomach pain. Every time I see Toby Atsushi eating, breathing, face, lips are sticky food, I think granddaughter. She is like Toby so much, in order to coax her to eat, with a few adults holding jobs run in the back of her ass, she did not buy it, but also on the premise: eat a bowl of buying a toy, eat a bowl of buying a toys … …
eye for an eye, but also a man as body
One day, we take Toby to the park. Soon, Toby on the kitchen and the two girls playing the game. Plastic pot, a small shovel, small plate, small bowl placed over the ground. Passed, Toby picked up the pot naughty, hit his head hard on a girl a bit, the girl froze for a moment, burst into tears. Some of the other younger girls, see some scenes have been scared to cry. Toby did not think there will be roughly the result of such a tense, standing, stopped.
Susan stepped forward, opening and cleaning of the circumstances surrounding the matter, she silent, pick up the pot, hard knock to the head of Toby, Toby did not alert, suddenly fell to the on the grass, cried together. Susan Toby asked: “Does it hurt? Next time if you promise?” Toby crying, while risking his head. I trust he will never do that.
Toby maternal uncle presented him with a small light blue bicycle, Toby extremely preferences, as a treasure, not allowed to touch others. Little Lucy Smith is Toby neighbors good friends peers, begged Toby several times, to ride to his car, Toby did not allow.
time, when several children play together, Lucy while Toby is not careful, secretly ride the car, and sped away. Toby invention, Susan angrily came to the prosecution. Susan is the mother of several children and chat with a cup of coffee, he smiled and said: “Your incident for its own account, her mother can not care.” Toby no choice but to go.
After a little while, Lucy riding a car back. Toby saw Lucy, one of her fall to the ground, grabbed the car. Lucy sat on the ground and burst into tears. Susan picked up Lucy, comfort her at once. Soon, Lucy and the other children to play together gleefully.
Toby will be riding a car, feel a little bored, a few children play then see that fun, he would like to participate, they feel a little beauty means. He rubs up against Susan side, muttered: “Mom, I want Lucy to play with them.” Susan spare no pains to say: “That you go to them it!” “Mom, you went with me. “Toby pleaded, nike air 90 . “I can not, you had just put Lucy cry, now you and everyone wants to play, you have to solve their own problems.”
Toby riding car gradually come near Lucy, When approaching her side, and turned back. Round-trip several times, womens goldwin jackets , do not know when to start, Toby and Lucy and enraptured, downtown has become a group.
parents disciplining their children is a matter
rely presume Susan lives in California, said to me, and they drove to see us. Home to the guests, Toby is very happy, run up and down to earth rampant. He used to play with sand pail filled with water, put the keg in the house turn around travel. Susan told her good frequently, do not sprinkle water on the floor, Toby turned a blind eye. At the end, Toby is still felling the bucket, the water spilled over the floor. Happy little Toby do not feel something wrong, a depressing list of property after 80, but also contented to play barefoot tread water, the pants all wet. I quickly find out mop mopping the floor preparation. Susan grabbed the mop from my hands to Toby, he said: “the mop dry, the wet clothes off, wash yourself clean.” Toby refuses to Italy, cry and kick. Susan apart from anything else, he pulled indirect storage room, off the confinement. Toby heard back crews are moving in, including the cry, I love bad, want it put him into it. Toby grandmother has stopped me, saying: “This is Susan things.”
After a child, Toby cry, in the storage room where he was shouting loudly: “Mom, I was wrong. “Susan stood outside the door, and asked:” Do you know how to do it? “” I know. “Susan opened the door, Toby came out from the storage room, his face hanging from two lines of tears . He picked up two high with his mop effortlessly drag the ground water clean. Then he took off his pants, carry in your hand, bare ass into the bathroom, splinters from washing clothes.
Toby grandparents looked surprised, I feel, a symbol of deep smile. This thing that made me deep thoughts. Chinese families in the lot, when parents discipline their children, will often lead to “World War”, often is the grandmother grandfather protection, grandparents stopped, wife beatings, chickens fly the dog to go.
Later, my grandfather and grandmother Toby talk location, on this thing, Toby grandfather said some words, so that impressed me deeply. He said, spyder gloves , the child is a parent child, the parents of children from primary education respectful way. Although small children, it touches on the resulting communication home, when he arrived to see the differences between family members present, he will be very intelligent to be abused and lead. This move not only to improve his cents beneficial, north face shoes out? Tramp of?? See it, it will cause more severe problems, and even more other problems. Also, conflicts between family members, negative harmonic family atmosphere will not give them more sense of quiet, the child physical growth and affect the occurrence of bad luck. Yi Shi, both the parents and grandparents in the child education on the occurrence of different, or the husband and wife have different views of education, can not generate debate in front of the child.
Toby grandparents lived at home for a week, ready to return to California a. Two days before leaving, Toby grandfather solemnly asked his daughter: “Toby wanted a toy excavator, I can buy it for him?” Susan thought, said: “You this time, we get give him a pair of roller skates as a gift to Christmas, to buy him a gift toy excavator it! “
I do not know how Toby grandfather is a report of a small guy, Jue After I took Toby to the supermarket, he pointed to the toy machine excavation, said: “my grandfather said, Christmas, I bought this as gifts.” tone was full of surprises and wait.
like this despite the harsh care of Susan, Toby Debu love to but then my mother is suffering. He played on the surface, it will collect some of the eye-catching flowers he thought about the beautiful leaves, careful to give being to her mother; others gave him a gift, he would call my mother and him apart; what is delicious, but also to the mother to stay half the total.
Chinese children think much contempt and indifference of parents, I had to admire my foreign wife. In my eyes, the child education, the United States there are many mothers that China can learn from her mother.
Fanfan by: of course not yet married and have children, but after the age to, and will start to think about families, children and education topics. China is now some deformity, it probably is not you and I can rotate other small old Lai Man pomp of the occasion. However, after 90 adverse criticism, had to the lesson. So I start collecting some of the world is different 0a8a39ed1cc0695cf38ce2051cc3833 eight different bbf601b1b8faed323288fe09e96e29d one way to make ends meet different people of different educational philosophy to learn to think, in the end what to do a competent parent. Some people probably Qiaobu Shang ocean education essentials, however, sowed in your chin, nose contempt with the education of others before, please think properly:
I hope you like your child to become what people?
you can put your child education as what kind of person? ?
education, not flexible and able to flow unimpeded!
Do not use your child life is ignorance and stubbornness buy it!